If one person fails, everyone fails.
U.S. Army soldiers assigned to Chaos Troop, 6th Squadron, 8th Cavalry Regiment, 4th Brigade Combat Team, 3rd Infantry Division, cross a river while on an Afghan-led foot patrol near Combat Outpost Baraki-Barak in Logar province, Afghanistan. U.S. forces are working closely with Afghan National Army as they provide stability to the people of Logar province.
(Photo by Spc. Alexandra Campo, 13 MAY 2013.) High-res

If one person fails, everyone fails.

U.S. Army soldiers assigned to Chaos Troop, 6th Squadron, 8th Cavalry Regiment, 4th Brigade Combat Team, 3rd Infantry Division, cross a river while on an Afghan-led foot patrol near Combat Outpost Baraki-Barak in Logar province, Afghanistan. U.S. forces are working closely with Afghan National Army as they provide stability to the people of Logar province.

(Photo by Spc. Alexandra Campo, 13 MAY 2013.)

SOLDIER STORIES: My life’s a tragedy.

biggreenweener:

I’m not writing this to win sympathy, likes, or reblogs. And I appreciate whatever words of support and condolence you’ve sent my way. But I’ve come to accept that my life’s pretty much one disaster after another.

It’s bad enough to be away from the same family that threw me out when I told them I was gay. Then I got word that my mother had a stroke and was in intensive care when I was half the world away. Then even before I made the decision to come home and risk facing my father’s wrath I got a phone call that my mom just passed away.

I didn’t really want to go home. I didn’t want to see my dad again and hear his bullshit and get hit by him like I’m trash. 

So I asked for and got my emergency leave. I came back stateside a day after they buried my mom the day after Mother’s Day. I really felt like a worthless son. I loved my mom. She was the only person who came around and accepted me, much as she was bound to follow my dad no matter where he stood. 

I never stayed home. I checked in at a motel the whole time I was home. And I wasn’t home long; I stayed in Florida only for 3 days. I had 2-week’s worth of leave, so I spent the rest of it roaming around. Trying to figure out what’s happening with my life and where I’m heading to. 

I felt so lost. I’ve never longed for my mom’s words as much as when she was finally gone. I guess it’s true that you only know what you’ve got when it’s gone. 

So here I am, heading back to Afghanistan. Losing more than when I was at war, and feeling that with my mom gone I’ve got nothing left to lose.

My life’s a tragedy. I feel like an orphan now.

[You make your own family; you can, and you have even if you don’t see it. There are bonds thicker than blood—love and brotherhood most prominently. You have both. -R]

SOLDIER STORIES: Black Heart Love.

The region around Kandahar city in Afghanistan is the Taliban’s birthplace and breeding ground. That makes it a key location in the U.S. military’s security efforts. But “securing” a region in which you can hardly distinguish friend from foe is far easier said than done. NPR staff photographer David Gilkey just returned from the region, where he spent time with the 101st Airborne Division. Their mission is two-fold: chase out the Taliban and win the trust of locals — if they can.

Curator’s Choice: March 2012.
Solidarity.

Afghan National Army commandos gather around a fire for a post-mission brief after a patrol to conduct clearing operations in Khakrez district, Kandahar province, Afghanistan.
(Photo by Jonathan Hudson, 6 March 2012.)
High-res

Curator’s Choice: March 2012.

Solidarity.

Afghan National Army commandos gather around a fire for a post-mission brief after a patrol to conduct clearing operations in Khakrez district, Kandahar province, Afghanistan.

(Photo by Jonathan Hudson, 6 March 2012.)

SOLDIER STORIES: Valuing Something Greater Than Self

[Salvatore Giunta, you are a strong, beautiful human being. -R]

Curator’s Choice: January 2012.

SOLDIER STORIES: Where This Brotherhood Began.
One small gesture of friendship by a team of Special Forces Soldiers set one young Bolivian corporal on a path toward wearing his own American green beret.
Then-Bolivian Army Corporal Rod Mendoza (left) watches as then-U.S. Army Sgt. 1st Class Patrick Fensom (center), of 7th Special Forces Group (Airborne), runs through reaction-to-contact drills during a 1997 Joint Combined Exchange Training exercise in Bolivia with the country’s Manchengo ranger battalion. In the past 14 years, Mendoza has left the Bolivian Army and joined the U.S. Army’s Special Forces regiment, served on several deployments and is now an instructor for the Special Forces Qualification Course. Fensom is now a sergeant major, and the deputy commandant of the David K. Thuma Noncommissioned Officer Academy at Fort Bragg. (Photo courtesy of Sgt. Maj. Patrick Fensom)
(via 120111-01 Where this brotherhood began)

(Article by Dave Chace, SWCS Public Affairs Office, USASOC News Service, originally posted 11 JAN 2012.)FORT BRAGG, N.C. – In 1997, eight Special Forces Soldiers traveled to Bolivia to train and advise a battalion of Boliv­ian Army rangers. Beyond running the battalion’s light infantry certification training, the Special Forces team used their downtime to refine their own techniques and tactical proficiency; and they allowed a motivated 20-year-old Bolivian Army corporal to par­ticipate in their team training sessions.
For then-Sgt. 1st Class. Patrick Fensom and his teammates on Operational Detachment-Alpha 716, part of the 7th Special Forces Group (Airborne), this training was routine. A few hours of internal team training events during a six-week Joint Combined Ex­change Training deployment was usual, and if one or two host-nation soldiers wanted to come along and see how American forces did business, they were welcome.
For then-Bolivian Army Corporal Rod Mendoza, however, this experience came to define the next 14 years of his life. The Army’s Special Forces community is small, and friends are often reunited throughout their careers, but Fensom never expected to see Mendoza again; let alone to see him 14 years later as a Special Forces sergeant first class, training future ODA com­manders at the U.S. Army John F. Kennedy Special Warfare Center and School.
“In Bolivia, military service is mandatory, so I was doing my time [in the ’90s] and then I volunteered for ranger training,” Mendoza said. “Real American SF guys came to train us for a peacekeeping mission we were preparing to do with the United Nations. When they showed up, I was like, ‘Whoa, this is awesome!’”
Fensom, now a sergeant major and the deputy com­madant of the David K. Thuma Noncommissioned Offi­cer Academy, part of the U.S. Army John F. Kennedy Special Warfare Center and School at Fort Bragg, was a Special Forces weapons sergeant on the 8-man team assigned to train Mendoza’s unit, Bolivia’s Manchengo battalion.
“With the Manchengo battalion our mission was specifically to get them to a level where they could get certified by the United Nations to conduct peacekeeping operations,” Fensom said. “The training incorporated a lot of light infantry, medi­cal and communications tasks, with equipment or­ganic to their unit.”
“We got along with a lot of the Bolivian sol­diers, but [Mendoza] was one of the soldiers who wanted some extra train­ing,” Fensom said as he flipped through an old photo album at his desk, pointing at photos of a young Men­doza on a rifle range. “[Our team] always took some time to conduct team training during deployments, and Mendoza was one of two Bolivian soldiers we invited to train with us.”
Mendoza said he wouldn’t have been able to be­friend the American team if it hadn’t been for their ability to connect with him on a cultural level.
“[Our team] could converse pretty well in Spanish, and of course all our lessons were taught in Spanish,” Fensom said. “That really was a key to building that rapport; and if you didn’t speak Spanish really well, you had the Bolivian soldiers there to interact with.”
“They spoke some good Spanish, like [then-Sgt. 1st Class Arthur Lilley],” Mendoza said. “He was a great Spanish speaker, and it was a good way to establish a friendship.”
At the end of the JCET, Mendoza gave Lilley his Bolivian green beret as a gift; Lilley reciprocated, giving Mendoza his own American green beret, complete with the 7th SFG(A) flash and the American Special Forces regimental insignia.
Mendoza finished his service in the Bolivian army in 1998, and spent some time as a firefighter at the Bolivian airport before moving to his wife’s home in Puerto Rico.
“I didn’t know Puerto Ricans were allowed to join the U.S. Army, but as soon as I found out, I decided I didn’t want to be a firefighter, I wanted to join the U.S. Army,” Mendoza said. He enlisted as an indirect-fire infantryman and asked for an assignment with the 82nd Airborne Division at Fort Bragg, in or­der to be as close as possible to the heart of the Army’s Special Forces. His experience in an infantry unit was a great introduction to the U.S. Army, he said.
“I liked serving in the Bolivian Army, but I always viewed the U.S. as having the best army in the world – as it is, of course, with the quality of its training, equip­ment and capabilities,” Mendoza said.
“The first thing I did after becoming a U.S. citizen was to go to Special Forces Assessment and Selec­tion, because that was my dream,” Mendoza said. “I was finally going to become one of those cool guys I saw while I was in the Bolivian army!” Mendoza was selected to attend the Special Forces Qualification Course to become a Special Forces weapons sergeant.
“Of course there were lots of things I didn’t know, and I quickly saw the diversity in the things Special Forces groups can do and the areas they deploy to, especially after 9/11,” Mendoza said. “I saw the ca­pability and how much we can do with just a team of 12 men. It’s amazing, and I’m so grateful to be here.”
“In a later JCET I learned how important it is for you as a team in a foreign country to represent your country; you actually build relationships with local soldiers,” Mendoza said. “And that’s what [ODA 716] pretty much did to me, they were my inspiration to join the U.S. Army later on. I didn’t even speak Eng­lish, but I dreamed of joining the Special Forces, and life took me there.”
Mendoza ran into Lilley, then a first sergeant in the 96th Civil Affairs Battalion, after beginning the SFQC. “He couldn’t believe it – in fact, he thought I was still in the Bolivian Army, because we were still wear­ing BDUs,” Mendoza said. “He was so excited, and said that he was going back to 7th SFG(A) to be a team sergeant, and to stay in touch – maybe I could go to his battalion.”
Mendoza invited Lilley to attend his gradua­tion ceremony from the SFQC, but Lilley couldn’t make it – he was preparing to deploy to Afghanistan. Men­doza was due to report to 7th SFG(A) follow­ing his graduation, and as a sign of friendship, he donned the green be­ret he’d received from Lilley in Bolivia in 1997 at his regimental first formation ceremony – the ceremony where new Special Forces Soldiers are first allowed to wear their beret.
Sadly, Mendoza never had the opportunity to serve alongside his friend. Master Sgt. Arthur L. Lilley was killed in action on June 15, 2007 of wounds sustained from enemy small-arms fire in Afghanistan.
“We’ve lost so many good men, and to see that Art’s memory is continuing in Mendoza and some other guys, that’s huge. That’s really honoring the memory of a quality NCO,” said Fensom, who wears a bracelet with Lilley’s name as a personal reminder of his service.
Mendoza went on to serve five years in 7th SFG(A), becoming a Special Forces intelligence ser­geant during that time. He served three combat de­ployments in Afghanistan, but his first Special Forces deployment had been as part of a JCET to Guatemala in Central America. His experience training with Lil­ley and Fensom’s team in 1997 made him want to be a similar mentor and inspiration to other young soldiers.
“[Guatemala] was a great experience for me be­cause of my experiences in the Bolivian Army,” Men­doza said. “We trained this Ranger-equivalent unit, and I was picturing myself back them, so to me it was easy to interact with those soldiers because I knew their lingo. I think we did a lot of good.”
Mendoza reported to SWCS in November 2011 to become an instructor for potential Special Forces of­ficers attending the SFQC. He hadn’t expected to run into Fensom again; Mendoza hadn’t heard about him for years, and figured he’d gotten out of the military – until he saw Fensom addressing a group of Senior Leader Course students. Both Mendoza’s classroom SFQC training and Fensom’s NCO Academy are located in Fort Bragg’s Kennedy Hall.
“I recognized [Fensom’s] face – of course, he’d had hair back in Bolivia,” Mendoza said. “I ran into him and told him that he’d been on ODA 716 and served in Bolivia, and he was like, yeah, how do you know that?” Fensom said that he remembered exactly who Mendoza was as soon as he found out he’d been a part of the Bolivian Army.
“He’s an instructor, mentoring future Special Forc­es Soldiers,” Fensom said.
“This job is interesting, because I can talk to future team leaders, and tell them how important it is to get a good relationship with host-nation soldiers and leaders,” Mendoza said. “And I can speak from the perspective of a member of the host-nation’s military.”
“This is a tremendous story, but it’s not about me or our team, it’s about what we do in Special Forces,” Fensom said. “Not only did we communicate our les­sons in his language, but we were a tight team back then, and I think that was captured in our non-verbal communications.”
Fensom said it was a proud feeling to see Mendoza serving at this level, as an NCO in the United States Special Forces community.
“It makes you realize that this is probably happen­ing at so many levels, daily, with what special-opera­tions Soldiers are doing,” Fensom said. “You see a guy achieve his dream, and he’s doing the same thing that we were doing back then, and that’s just too cool.” High-res

Curator’s Choice: January 2012.

SOLDIER STORIES: Where This Brotherhood Began.

One small gesture of friendship by a team of Special Forces Soldiers set one young Bolivian corporal on a path toward wearing his own American green beret.

Then-Bolivian Army Corporal Rod Mendoza (left) watches as then-U.S. Army Sgt. 1st Class Patrick Fensom (center), of 7th Special Forces Group (Airborne), runs through reaction-to-contact drills during a 1997 Joint Combined Exchange Training exercise in Bolivia with the country’s Manchengo ranger battalion. In the past 14 years, Mendoza has left the Bolivian Army and joined the U.S. Army’s Special Forces regiment, served on several deployments and is now an instructor for the Special Forces Qualification Course. Fensom is now a sergeant major, and the deputy commandant of the David K. Thuma Noncommissioned Officer Academy at Fort Bragg. (Photo courtesy of Sgt. Maj. Patrick Fensom)

(via 120111-01 Where this brotherhood began)

(Article by Dave Chace, SWCS Public Affairs Office, USASOC News Service, originally posted 11 JAN 2012.)

FORT BRAGG, N.C. – In 1997, eight Special Forces Soldiers traveled to Bolivia to train and advise a battalion of Boliv­ian Army rangers. Beyond running the battalion’s light infantry certification training, the Special Forces team used their downtime to refine their own techniques and tactical proficiency; and they allowed a motivated 20-year-old Bolivian Army corporal to par­ticipate in their team training sessions.

For then-Sgt. 1st Class. Patrick Fensom and his teammates on Operational Detachment-Alpha 716, part of the 7th Special Forces Group (Airborne), this training was routine. A few hours of internal team training events during a six-week Joint Combined Ex­change Training deployment was usual, and if one or two host-nation soldiers wanted to come along and see how American forces did business, they were welcome.

For then-Bolivian Army Corporal Rod Mendoza, however, this experience came to define the next 14 years of his life. The Army’s Special Forces community is small, and friends are often reunited throughout their careers, but Fensom never expected to see Mendoza again; let alone to see him 14 years later as a Special Forces sergeant first class, training future ODA com­manders at the U.S. Army John F. Kennedy Special Warfare Center and School.

“In Bolivia, military service is mandatory, so I was doing my time [in the ’90s] and then I volunteered for ranger training,” Mendoza said. “Real American SF guys came to train us for a peacekeeping mission we were preparing to do with the United Nations. When they showed up, I was like, ‘Whoa, this is awesome!’”

Fensom, now a sergeant major and the deputy com­madant of the David K. Thuma Noncommissioned Offi­cer Academy, part of the U.S. Army John F. Kennedy Special Warfare Center and School at Fort Bragg, was a Special Forces weapons sergeant on the 8-man team assigned to train Mendoza’s unit, Bolivia’s Manchengo battalion.

“With the Manchengo battalion our mission was specifically to get them to a level where they could get certified by the United Nations to conduct peacekeeping operations,” Fensom said. “The training incorporated a lot of light infantry, medi­cal and communications tasks, with equipment or­ganic to their unit.”

“We got along with a lot of the Bolivian sol­diers, but [Mendoza] was one of the soldiers who wanted some extra train­ing,” Fensom said as he flipped through an old photo album at his desk, pointing at photos of a young Men­doza on a rifle range. “[Our team] always took some time to conduct team training during deployments, and Mendoza was one of two Bolivian soldiers we invited to train with us.”

Mendoza said he wouldn’t have been able to be­friend the American team if it hadn’t been for their ability to connect with him on a cultural level.

“[Our team] could converse pretty well in Spanish, and of course all our lessons were taught in Spanish,” Fensom said. “That really was a key to building that rapport; and if you didn’t speak Spanish really well, you had the Bolivian soldiers there to interact with.”

“They spoke some good Spanish, like [then-Sgt. 1st Class Arthur Lilley],” Mendoza said. “He was a great Spanish speaker, and it was a good way to establish a friendship.”

At the end of the JCET, Mendoza gave Lilley his Bolivian green beret as a gift; Lilley reciprocated, giving Mendoza his own American green beret, complete with the 7th SFG(A) flash and the American Special Forces regimental insignia.

Mendoza finished his service in the Bolivian army in 1998, and spent some time as a firefighter at the Bolivian airport before moving to his wife’s home in Puerto Rico.

“I didn’t know Puerto Ricans were allowed to join the U.S. Army, but as soon as I found out, I decided I didn’t want to be a firefighter, I wanted to join the U.S. Army,” Mendoza said. He enlisted as an indirect-fire infantryman and asked for an assignment with the 82nd Airborne Division at Fort Bragg, in or­der to be as close as possible to the heart of the Army’s Special Forces. His experience in an infantry unit was a great introduction to the U.S. Army, he said.

“I liked serving in the Bolivian Army, but I always viewed the U.S. as having the best army in the world – as it is, of course, with the quality of its training, equip­ment and capabilities,” Mendoza said.

“The first thing I did after becoming a U.S. citizen was to go to Special Forces Assessment and Selec­tion, because that was my dream,” Mendoza said. “I was finally going to become one of those cool guys I saw while I was in the Bolivian army!” Mendoza was selected to attend the Special Forces Qualification Course to become a Special Forces weapons sergeant.

“Of course there were lots of things I didn’t know, and I quickly saw the diversity in the things Special Forces groups can do and the areas they deploy to, especially after 9/11,” Mendoza said. “I saw the ca­pability and how much we can do with just a team of 12 men. It’s amazing, and I’m so grateful to be here.”

“In a later JCET I learned how important it is for you as a team in a foreign country to represent your country; you actually build relationships with local soldiers,” Mendoza said. “And that’s what [ODA 716] pretty much did to me, they were my inspiration to join the U.S. Army later on. I didn’t even speak Eng­lish, but I dreamed of joining the Special Forces, and life took me there.”

Mendoza ran into Lilley, then a first sergeant in the 96th Civil Affairs Battalion, after beginning the SFQC. 
“He couldn’t believe it – in fact, he thought I was still in the Bolivian Army, because we were still wear­ing BDUs,” Mendoza said. “He was so excited, and said that he was going back to 7th SFG(A) to be a team sergeant, and to stay in touch – maybe I could go to his battalion.”

Mendoza invited Lilley to attend his gradua­tion ceremony from the SFQC, but Lilley couldn’t make it – he was preparing to deploy to Afghanistan. Men­doza was due to report to 7th SFG(A) follow­ing his graduation, and as a sign of friendship, he donned the green be­ret he’d received from Lilley in Bolivia in 1997 at his regimental first formation ceremony – the ceremony where new Special Forces Soldiers are first allowed to wear their beret.

Sadly, Mendoza never had the opportunity to serve alongside his friend. Master Sgt. Arthur L. Lilley was killed in action on June 15, 2007 of wounds sustained from enemy small-arms fire in Afghanistan.

“We’ve lost so many good men, and to see that Art’s memory is continuing in Mendoza and some other guys, that’s huge. That’s really honoring the memory of a quality NCO,” said Fensom, who wears a bracelet with Lilley’s name as a personal reminder of his service.

Mendoza went on to serve five years in 7th SFG(A), becoming a Special Forces intelligence ser­geant during that time. He served three combat de­ployments in Afghanistan, but his first Special Forces deployment had been as part of a JCET to Guatemala in Central America. His experience training with Lil­ley and Fensom’s team in 1997 made him want to be a similar mentor and inspiration to other young soldiers.

“[Guatemala] was a great experience for me be­cause of my experiences in the Bolivian Army,” Men­doza said. “We trained this Ranger-equivalent unit, and I was picturing myself back them, so to me it was easy to interact with those soldiers because I knew their lingo. I think we did a lot of good.”

Mendoza reported to SWCS in November 2011 to become an instructor for potential Special Forces of­ficers attending the SFQC. He hadn’t expected to run into Fensom again; Mendoza hadn’t heard about him for years, and figured he’d gotten out of the military – until he saw Fensom addressing a group of Senior Leader Course students. Both Mendoza’s classroom SFQC training and Fensom’s NCO Academy are located in Fort Bragg’s Kennedy Hall.

“I recognized [Fensom’s] face – of course, he’d had hair back in Bolivia,” Mendoza said. “I ran into him and told him that he’d been on ODA 716 and served in Bolivia, and he was like, yeah, how do you know that?” Fensom said that he remembered exactly who Mendoza was as soon as he found out he’d been a part of the Bolivian Army.

“He’s an instructor, mentoring future Special Forc­es Soldiers,” Fensom said.

“This job is interesting, because I can talk to future team leaders, and tell them how important it is to get a good relationship with host-nation soldiers and leaders,” Mendoza said. “And I can speak from the perspective of a member of the host-nation’s military.”

“This is a tremendous story, but it’s not about me or our team, it’s about what we do in Special Forces,” Fensom said. “Not only did we communicate our les­sons in his language, but we were a tight team back then, and I think that was captured in our non-verbal communications.”

Fensom said it was a proud feeling to see Mendoza serving at this level, as an NCO in the United States Special Forces community.

“It makes you realize that this is probably happen­ing at so many levels, daily, with what special-opera­tions Soldiers are doing,” Fensom said. “You see a guy achieve his dream, and he’s doing the same thing that we were doing back then, and that’s just too cool.”

(via soldierporn)

thedurdydozen:

Sgt. Dakota Meyer and President Barack Obama grab a beer together in the Rose Garden, a request that Meyer made when he was informed that he was going to receive the Congressional Medal of Honor. Sgt. Meyer is the first living Marine to be awarded the Medal of Honor since the Vietnam War.
Meyer, a corporal at the time, went against orders to save a dozen Marines and two platoons of Afghan army troops who were ambushed by over 150 enemy combatants. With the help of Staff Sgt. Juan Rodriguez-Chavez and Captain Ademola D. Fabayo, Meyer made five trips into the ambush to save 36 men, and to bring home the bodies of three Marines and a Navy corpsman.

Dakota, I know that you’ve grappled with the grief of that day; that you’ve said your efforts were somehow a “failure” because your teammates didn’t come home. But as your Commander-in-Chief, and on behalf of everyone here today and all Americans, I want you to know it’s quite the opposite. You did your duty, above and beyond, and you kept the faith with the highest traditions of the Marine Corps that you love.

—President Obama
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thedurdydozen:

Sgt. Dakota Meyer and President Barack Obama grab a beer together in the Rose Garden, a request that Meyer made when he was informed that he was going to receive the Congressional Medal of Honor. Sgt. Meyer is the first living Marine to be awarded the Medal of Honor since the Vietnam War.

Meyer, a corporal at the time, went against orders to save a dozen Marines and two platoons of Afghan army troops who were ambushed by over 150 enemy combatants. With the help of Staff Sgt. Juan Rodriguez-Chavez and Captain Ademola D. Fabayo, Meyer made five trips into the ambush to save 36 men, and to bring home the bodies of three Marines and a Navy corpsman.

Dakota, I know that you’ve grappled with the grief of that day; that you’ve said your efforts were somehow a “failure” because your teammates didn’t come home. But as your Commander-in-Chief, and on behalf of everyone here today and all Americans, I want you to know it’s quite the opposite. You did your duty, above and beyond, and you kept the faith with the highest traditions of the Marine Corps that you love.

—President Obama

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loaded-for-bear:

aoncerslife:

Never forget a very real Sacrifice 2.0

Many of my followers most likely do not know that by the end of this year I will be joining the US Military. It is something that I have always felt I needed to do and was meant to do. I know this blog is meant for other things but being what today is I felt the need to post this in honor of the heroes we lost.

Memorial services are the worst part. Every time.

“We few, we happy few, we band of brothers…”